the end of an era
by Welp..., Apr 1, 2025, 4:33 AM
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updates: i have sort of set up a blog on my website and this will probably be the last time i'll post on here. moreover i'm graduating college and starting work at a faang later this summer (yay). so i guess it's a pretty good time to look back here...
i reread this blog when setting up my new one and it's pretty cringeworthy. like holy was i really that pressed over ap calc or usaco, to the point i'd write long rants about it? i guess i've been pressed about my own things recently. last post on here i was complaining about eecs 126 or something, and after that i had recruiting and whatnot to worry about. but now that everything is (hopefully) in the past, i feel like i've been equally neurotic about my own things in college.
however i honestly feel like the only thing that even kept me grinding in college was this neurosis. the idea that if i stopped now, some nightmare scenario that i dreamed up in my own head would magically come true. and regrettably i have to say for much of high school and college that was a bigger motivator than actually being interested in the work i was doing.
for example usaco. i basically did it because i didn't want to end on a loss and i don't really think i actually enjoyed it very much. by the end i pretty much only did them because i was scared that somehow only being in usaco gold meant i was a failure of a person. and not only did this make me unmotivated to actually learn competitive coding stuff, it also made me more tilted during contests further hurting my performance! i definitely think i got wayyyy too worked up over this during covid to basically be wasting all my time spinning in circles om something i didn't really enjoy doing.
what did i enjoy doing during covid? didn't really do much sysadmin stuff and i really regret it because the very very little that i did interested me more than any usaco problem. and during college i decided screw algorithms i'm going to focus on that instead. although it's had its fair share of challenges and i've been pretty worked up over that sometimes as well, i feel like the systems classes i've done have been a lot more fun than the corresponding AI/ML classes. maybe this is because i know i haven't really done systems stuff before, so i'm less insecure about failing or asking questions.
although i did start exploring things more out of interest to learn in college, i still fell back into being toxic pretty frequently. most notably during the recruiting season i was pretty visibly downcast after getting not inclined from amazon (no RO) and thought that i would be absolutely cooked if i didn't get a job immediately after. every ghost/reject after a job interview just threw me farther down an emotional rabbit hole. thankfully i ended up getting a job early this semester. god knows what i'd be like still searching this many months in, but a very unwelcome return to the insecurity and prestige chasing from high school. honestly i'm pretty ashamed i let myself get hung up on that but oh well. we'll get it next time.
so as a tl;dr i feel like this blog really encapsulates the (very wrong!!) mindset i had in high school wrt my attitude towards math and coding competitions. i was solving problems and doing mocks for the sake of getting better results next contest as opposed to genuine interest in the subject matter for math and coding competitions. i've tried (and ultimately failed i think) to wean myself off of that mindset in college, but still found myself getting pretty irrationally tied up in things like grades and recruiting.
man i've said way too much on here too much yapping
updates: i have sort of set up a blog on my website and this will probably be the last time i'll post on here. moreover i'm graduating college and starting work at a faang later this summer (yay). so i guess it's a pretty good time to look back here...
i reread this blog when setting up my new one and it's pretty cringeworthy. like holy was i really that pressed over ap calc or usaco, to the point i'd write long rants about it? i guess i've been pressed about my own things recently. last post on here i was complaining about eecs 126 or something, and after that i had recruiting and whatnot to worry about. but now that everything is (hopefully) in the past, i feel like i've been equally neurotic about my own things in college.
however i honestly feel like the only thing that even kept me grinding in college was this neurosis. the idea that if i stopped now, some nightmare scenario that i dreamed up in my own head would magically come true. and regrettably i have to say for much of high school and college that was a bigger motivator than actually being interested in the work i was doing.
for example usaco. i basically did it because i didn't want to end on a loss and i don't really think i actually enjoyed it very much. by the end i pretty much only did them because i was scared that somehow only being in usaco gold meant i was a failure of a person. and not only did this make me unmotivated to actually learn competitive coding stuff, it also made me more tilted during contests further hurting my performance! i definitely think i got wayyyy too worked up over this during covid to basically be wasting all my time spinning in circles om something i didn't really enjoy doing.
what did i enjoy doing during covid? didn't really do much sysadmin stuff and i really regret it because the very very little that i did interested me more than any usaco problem. and during college i decided screw algorithms i'm going to focus on that instead. although it's had its fair share of challenges and i've been pretty worked up over that sometimes as well, i feel like the systems classes i've done have been a lot more fun than the corresponding AI/ML classes. maybe this is because i know i haven't really done systems stuff before, so i'm less insecure about failing or asking questions.
although i did start exploring things more out of interest to learn in college, i still fell back into being toxic pretty frequently. most notably during the recruiting season i was pretty visibly downcast after getting not inclined from amazon (no RO) and thought that i would be absolutely cooked if i didn't get a job immediately after. every ghost/reject after a job interview just threw me farther down an emotional rabbit hole. thankfully i ended up getting a job early this semester. god knows what i'd be like still searching this many months in, but a very unwelcome return to the insecurity and prestige chasing from high school. honestly i'm pretty ashamed i let myself get hung up on that but oh well. we'll get it next time.
so as a tl;dr i feel like this blog really encapsulates the (very wrong!!) mindset i had in high school wrt my attitude towards math and coding competitions. i was solving problems and doing mocks for the sake of getting better results next contest as opposed to genuine interest in the subject matter for math and coding competitions. i've tried (and ultimately failed i think) to wean myself off of that mindset in college, but still found myself getting pretty irrationally tied up in things like grades and recruiting.
man i've said way too much on here too much yapping