Remember the human
by levans, Feb 25, 2014, 2:39 AM
In the past couple days we've had about twenty abuse reports. Some were pretty benign and thrown directly into the trash, while others were quite awful, leading to some not only being banned from FTW, but the entire site. You might think 20 isn't that many, but when you consider FTW has a relatively small user base, it's quite a big number. I'm going to quote cupcake1713, one of the admins of Reddit, who wrote pretty much exactly would I would want to write:
cupcake1713 wrote:
I wanted to bring up an important reminder about how folks interact with each other online. It is not a problem that exists solely on reddit [or in our case, AoPS], but rather the internet as a whole. The internet is a wonderful tool for interacting with people from all walks of life, but the anonymity it can afford can make it easy to forget that really, on the other end of the screens and keyboards, we're all just people. Living, breathing, people who have lives and goals and fears, have favorite TV shows and books and methods for breeding Pokemon, and each and every last one of us has opinions. Sure, those opinions might differ from your own. But that’s okay! People are entitled to their opinions. When you argue with people in person, do you say as many of the hate filled and vitriolic statements you see people slinging around online? Probably not. Please think about this next time you're in a situation that makes you want to lash out. If you wouldn't say it to their face, perhaps it's best you don't say it online.
Try to be courteous to others. See someone having a bad day? Give them a compliment or ask them a thoughtful question, and it might make their day better. Did someone reply to your comment with valuable insights or something that cheered you up? Send them a quick thanks letting them know you appreciate their comment.
So I ask you, the next time a user picks a fight with you, or you get the urge to harass another user because of something they typed on a keyboard, please... remember the human.
Try to be courteous to others. See someone having a bad day? Give them a compliment or ask them a thoughtful question, and it might make their day better. Did someone reply to your comment with valuable insights or something that cheered you up? Send them a quick thanks letting them know you appreciate their comment.
So I ask you, the next time a user picks a fight with you, or you get the urge to harass another user because of something they typed on a keyboard, please... remember the human.