friends that trigger me the most
by flec, Jan 21, 2022, 2:29 AM
i've been dealing with weird ppl a lot lately and i just wanted to write this to rant complain maturely.
if you're one of these people, i advise you to at least try to change; this can be a trait that will cause you trouble later on.
1. friends that rant excessively
there are people that just rant and rant and rant. i'm not saying ranting isn't okay; it is, but not when you overdo it and/or it's the only thing you talk about. relax. life is gonna be stressful, and there are times when your friends can't be there for you to comfort you again and again. ranting excessively is also selfish; your friends have troubles of their own and can't spend all their time on yours. they might be struggling themselves.
2. friends that make an argument out of everything
"oh my god, you say your mbti is this when it isn't, i hate you you're not my friend let's debate." things like this literally make me SOOOOOO angry. everyone is different from you and not even ur friends can think the same way as you do sometimes. don't expect your friends to go along with everything. it's so exhausting both mentally and physically when you spend all your time arguing over little things with friends.
3. friends that are demanding
"give me this." "this too." "this too." "i need more." please. stop. people can't be your personal servants and they have problems just like you. you can't command people and expect them to do what you want. it's not okay.
4. friends that are overly dramatic and overthink everything
we've all had a time where we overthink things. it's natural. but, it's not okay if you are overly dramatic all the time. i had a friend who kept saying "i'm gonna kill myself" "i hate my life" over little things, such as miscolouring in art or accidentally spilling water. it's so offensive and irritating when someone does this. there are bigger problems than spilling your pathetic water bottle over your louis vuitton purse LOL
5. friends that blame others
let's say you accidentally missed a shot in a basketball game and your team lost. what do you do? do you apologize and say you'll do better next time, or do you say "HEY! so-and-so gave me a bad pass. it's not my fault"? you apologize. even if so-and-so DID give you a bad pass, it's respectful to admit you made a mistake too and move on. people think it's saving yourself from humiliation when you blame others, but nooo it's just telling the world how selfish you are.
anyways, thanks for reading my HUGE paragraph and i hope you learned a lesson.
things can be hard sometimes, but it's important to accept that things are just as hard for others.
respect others as well as yourself.
if you're one of these people, i advise you to at least try to change; this can be a trait that will cause you trouble later on.
1. friends that rant excessively
there are people that just rant and rant and rant. i'm not saying ranting isn't okay; it is, but not when you overdo it and/or it's the only thing you talk about. relax. life is gonna be stressful, and there are times when your friends can't be there for you to comfort you again and again. ranting excessively is also selfish; your friends have troubles of their own and can't spend all their time on yours. they might be struggling themselves.
2. friends that make an argument out of everything
"oh my god, you say your mbti is this when it isn't, i hate you you're not my friend let's debate." things like this literally make me SOOOOOO angry. everyone is different from you and not even ur friends can think the same way as you do sometimes. don't expect your friends to go along with everything. it's so exhausting both mentally and physically when you spend all your time arguing over little things with friends.
3. friends that are demanding
"give me this." "this too." "this too." "i need more." please. stop. people can't be your personal servants and they have problems just like you. you can't command people and expect them to do what you want. it's not okay.
4. friends that are overly dramatic and overthink everything
we've all had a time where we overthink things. it's natural. but, it's not okay if you are overly dramatic all the time. i had a friend who kept saying "i'm gonna kill myself" "i hate my life" over little things, such as miscolouring in art or accidentally spilling water. it's so offensive and irritating when someone does this. there are bigger problems than spilling your pathetic water bottle over your louis vuitton purse LOL
5. friends that blame others
let's say you accidentally missed a shot in a basketball game and your team lost. what do you do? do you apologize and say you'll do better next time, or do you say "HEY! so-and-so gave me a bad pass. it's not my fault"? you apologize. even if so-and-so DID give you a bad pass, it's respectful to admit you made a mistake too and move on. people think it's saving yourself from humiliation when you blame others, but nooo it's just telling the world how selfish you are.
anyways, thanks for reading my HUGE paragraph and i hope you learned a lesson.
things can be hard sometimes, but it's important to accept that things are just as hard for others.
respect others as well as yourself.
This post has been edited 3 times. Last edited by flec, Jan 21, 2022, 4:38 PM
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