assumptions about me

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 2:55 AM

i'll answer them

i guess i like interacting with this community especially after i can't use my phone (it got taken away like it does on a weekly basis)

i don't really feel like typing a huge post right now, and i guess this can be for fun sometimes :] i like getting to know people and i suppose in exchange, you should know some stuff about me

lol hey flec, why are you doing this?

1) i hate assumptions that are made about me. i'm kind of going against myself because i make a ton of assumptions about other people that aren't really easily broken, but still :laugh:.

2) i feel like it's also easy to make false assumptions when you're online and not face-to-face.

3) schoolwork isn't entertaining
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hmmmmmmmmm i dont really know...
1) you're the therapist friend
2) when a flamewar breaks out in your class you dont participate in it and rather sit on the side and judge
3) you either put 110% or 10% effort into your work(?)
4) you're the type of person to have a small group of close friends rather than a large group of casual friends
5) you always feel like you're being judged and you hate that you care
6) you probably dont like change or new beginnings
7) you get top marks in your class
8) you have a stronger relationship with some of your friends than your parents
9) you would rather stay in than go out
10) a black cat friend??
11) when you see a group of kids from your school you would rather turn around and hope they didnt see you instead of running up to greet thing

i hope this doesnt sound rude or like im hating on you-

by Beast_Academic_Emma, Feb 16, 2024, 3:09 AM

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1) yes
2) i do sit and judge most of the time, but if it is about a topic i'm passionate about, i'm definitely part of it. and i make sure everyone knows i am. :oops:
3) yes
4) i prioritize my small group of close friends for sure, but also am cool/friends (though not best or super duper close friends) so i'm basically friends with everyone unless you do something to me. i'd say i have a lot of people i'm cool with who we could mutually feel comfortable hanging out and talking and stuff, but i have a group of friends i definitely would initiate social interaction
5) sort of. if i care about you, i definitely am like this. otherwise, i'd say i judge them more than they judge me
6) i really value change and i need it. too much repetition is exhausting for me and makes me feel depressed. i don't like too much change/new beginnings, but i need it sometimes. same goes for repetition--i don't like it, but i need some of it.
7) yes, but it depends on the subject. for challenging and extremely competitive classes such as my AP classes, i am almost always the top of my class because my competitiveness drives me (i don't like competition where it's you have to fight to survive and the competition is like obvious, but a little competition in my head challenges me to do good)
8) yes
9) depends--i think going out with friends once every three weeks is very enjoyable for me
10) yes. i actually want to get three cats when i'm older--one ginger, one white, one silver or black
11) yes, even if i'm friends with them i feel awkward a lot

don't feel like you're being rude! i would rather have you say truthful things so i can answer them genuinely and we can clear misunderstandings. it's always good to have authentic convos. if you don't like something about me and feel like i'm something, i would rather have you tell me--for irl people i can usually tell, but online's slightly harder.

most of your assumptions turned out to be right anyways

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 3:25 AM

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My first impression of u back in mid 2022 was that ur very bubbly and a little outspoken lol

by SapphireDolphin9, Feb 16, 2024, 3:29 AM

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i'd say it's much easier for me to be outspoken online than i am in person. whatever i have trouble speaking my thoughts irl, i write them on my blog. so i think it's completely understandable you'd think that. i don't really know how to answer with yes and no, but i'd say the best possible (and most truthful) response is that i'm very outspoken in my head and i know exactly what to say, but sometimes i suppress those thoughts to avoid unnecessary conflict lol

for being bubbly, i like to say that i am pretty outgoing. i don't think i'm the loudest in the room, but i also don't think i'm the quietest. i'm probably a little quiet with people i don't know well, but if i'm comfortable and in a class with a lot of friends, i'll be pretty chatty.

i am pretty different than i was in mid 2022--i think my thoughts were pretty built back then, but the way i conveyed them then and now contrast evidently

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 3:33 AM

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lol being honest, this post is really cool. like i always had trouble getting to know myself a little, but when i did, i realized that i guess i'm kind of an okay person. you can disagree with that if you want but it kind of tells me that i'm in a way pretty normal, and not some sort of psycho with jumbled thoughts about myself. so thank you guys for that--this is pretty fun surprisingly

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 3:35 AM

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3 seconds later, i'm now overthinking again. yay. i realize that sounds actually really fricking egotistical. i promise i don't mean it that way. i think everyone deserves to have an aha moment. that's the only reason why i haven't deleted the comment like i usually do for my other ones

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 3:36 AM

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very philosophical

by awesomeming327., Feb 16, 2024, 3:50 AM

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kind of. either really passionate or really bored or don't care and would rather be playing video games

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 3:55 AM

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@emma bro literally just described me almost perfectly

by ericwzzhang, Feb 16, 2024, 4:31 AM

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hm idk if this is an assumption or an analyzation of our messages in the pm, but I think you're the type of person who can seem distant at first, but is pretty open tt friends

by Helena_Liang, Feb 16, 2024, 6:12 AM

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rly mature and great emotional supporter <3

by CC_chloe, Feb 16, 2024, 6:27 AM

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@helena yes, but i choose who to tell things to even between close friends.
@chloe i would be bias. i like to say i am a good emotional supporter. even though i sorta suck at responding fast sometimes
i need to sleep i have so much hw

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 7:01 AM

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hope u got good sleep
nice nice nice im usually not very intuitive im surprised i got so many right

by Beast_Academic_Emma, Feb 16, 2024, 4:30 PM

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i feel like you'd like lemons more than limes

by lakesiide, Feb 16, 2024, 4:39 PM

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yes, but lime for pho

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 4:42 PM

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I love eating lemons directly.

by awesomeming327., Feb 16, 2024, 4:49 PM

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i like eating both lemons and limes directly, tho sometimes i get a stomachache if it's too sour :noo:

by flec, Feb 16, 2024, 4:51 PM

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by the way, flec is this an og idea?? i would like to ask abt assumptions on my blog and im pretty sure ive seen this before on chlo's blog but im not sure if ill accidentally copy u like last time, thanks <3

by Beast_Academic_Emma, Feb 16, 2024, 5:42 PM

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i'm not sure lol i've done something like this in the past but i've also seen people do this and sometimes ideas get uncredited and spread around and we don't really know the origin... which has happened to some of my entries before. this particular one i'm not sure but i assume a bunch of ppl have done it before me since it's just a casual, common post?

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