i've always found it weird how my opinions on people are judged head on from the first minute, but not quite in a way that makes it "first impression judging."
my intuition is generally 99% of what tells me whether someone is a good person or not, and i actually know what i think of them almost immediately after meeting them, especially after seeing the way they talk, their impressions, their body language.
there have been times where my friends could be like, "i love her she's so nice" and i will take one look at the girl and something will tell me it's off.

this is why i have weirdly positive or neutral opinions on people that even everyone hates and negative opinions on the most well-liked people out there.

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some "i don't like you" moments

• friends said she was super nice and everyone says she is the perfect person. she even gets hate for being so goody-two shoes that's how nice she is. took one look at her and as soon as i heard the sentence "nice to meet you and i say hi on the behalf of the national junior honour society teachers," i didn't like her.
• a guy in one of my classes is known to be extremely charismatic, even the teachers say so themselves. he sat next to me and smiled at me + said my pencil was nice (the carrot one). i don't like you.
• there is a girl that interacts a lot with one of the people i sit next to. she giggled at a joke he made. i don't like you.
• joking around with a friend, then someone tells us to be quiet when the teacher's talking and be respectful. you're right, but i don't like you.
• teacher said "i understand everyone's experiences and what they go through. i know completely." then told me "oh i'll fix your grade at the end of the semester" i don't like you.

some "i don't get why people hate you" experiences:

• there are two girls in my PE class who either fake tourettes or have it, and most people claim they are faking it. they also have very sensitive hearing, and if someone will make the slightest loud sound (ex celebrating after winning a match), they will collapse onto the floor with their hands over their ears. as much as it annoys people, and some people are literally out there attacking them and calling them crimes for "faking" it, i never got a red flag intuition warning or whatever from them, simply because they isolate themselves from other people. i remember one time i was in a group with them and i played soccer with them, and they laughed + were very good sports about it. simple moment, but really changed my opinion on them. i think faking a mental illness is disrespectful, but a genuine faker would try to get attention by calling it on them to make others pity them, but they don't even do that. they leave others alone and leave themselves alone. they're weird, i mean there's no denying that, but i thought they were trying to live their life. maybe they struggle at home and they need a way to cope outside.
• there is a girl i'm actually friends with that's a bit younger than us and acted immature. struggled taking hints and if she saw an instagram story or something with people she considered friends hanging out w/o her, she would dm them and be like "why wasn't i invited ):" or something like that. a lot of girls talked bad about her for it, but she's a nontoxic person. it's normal to be hurt if you see the people you think of as friends hanging out without you, and i think she was just not mature enough yet to keep it to herself.
• teacher that talks 24/7 and is way too excited about english. he's so annoying + thinks that all of us have deep thoughts about this book we're reading, but not a bad person. i don't get why people hate you, though i get it if they call you annoying

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a time i was right
friend: i think [this girl]'s nice and i will be friends with her
me: who is she friends with
friend: a, b, c, d, and e.
me: i don't like her

friend proceeds to become close with her anyways, then they fight and end up never making up. sometimes, i really want to say i told you so.

also, i don't think there's a problem with not liking someone as long as you don't mistreat the person or treat them in a bias way. of course if you don't like them from a reason, you might need to, but if you're intuition just says no just avoid them. also these examples don't really specify a lot because i find a lot of the feelings i got from them very hard to put into words, but i promise you there's something. there's something i just can't place